Why Our World Is Falling Apart – and What to Do About It

Why Our World Is Falling Apart – and What to Do About It

Our world – including, perhaps especially, the United States – appears to have taken a dark and chaotic turn. This has been building for some time and is now bursting into full view. This is not a political statement. I know many fine people (and not so fine) of every political stripe. Good, sincere, and spiritually advanced humans exist across the mainstream socio-religious-political spectrum.

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Miley Cyrus vs Sinead O'Connor: Who's Right?

Miley Cyrus vs Sinead O'Connor: Who's Right?

A fascinating social media feud wages between Sinead O'Connor and Miley Cyrus. It began with an open letter that Sinead wrote to Miley, the gist of which was that Sinead was warning Miley not to sexualize herself as she has been doing lately (just two examples being her MTV VMA performance and her topless magazine spread). It further assumed that Miley was doing this at the behest of the white men who control the record industry and are merely doing so to boost their own profits, not because they care about Miley's long-term career or her as a person.

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Materialism Is Stressing You Out

Materialism Is Stressing You Out

 It's not uncommon to think that buying something shiny and new will boost our positive feelings; we've all tried out that theory at one time or another. The bad news is that not only can't we purchase our way to happiness, it turns out that the more we try, the less likely we are to have appropriate levels of self-esteem and the more prone we are to anxiety, stress, and the negative psychic impacts of traumatic events.

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Life Lessons from New Cosmological Theory

Life Lessons from New Cosmological Theory

A startling new scientific theory has ramifications for how we see our daily lives. For decades, the conventional scientific wisdom about the formation of our Universe has been that it all started with a Big Bang and has been expanding ever since. A new article published in the journal Nature reveals that one cosmologist is proposing a radically different interpretation of the same known facts about our Universe, concluding that perhaps the cosmos isn't expanding at all.

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Our Beliefs and Stereotypes Change Physical Reality

Our Beliefs and Stereotypes Change Physical Reality

A newly released study reaffirms one of the key tenets of The Bliss Experiment: what we believe about ourselves changes our body and mind. 

The study, to be published in the journal Psychological Science, found that the act of reminding elderly people of the stereotype that they are forgetful, prone to "senior moments" or even outright senile, actually caused their memory to deteriorate.

 

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Spiritual Lessons from Public Drunkeness

Spiritual Lessons from Public Drunkeness

No, this isn't the post where I confess a shameful personal secret. In the current issue of The Atlantic, there's an interesting article on alcohol, drinking, and intoxication that hints at some deeper truths. The article looks at a series of studies demonstrating that the environment and context within which we drink greatly impacts our thoughts, experiences, and even our physical responses to the alcohol.

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When in Doubt: Simplify

When in Doubt: Simplify

Not long ago, I was speaking with someone very wealthy. She was telling me how much happier she and her husband were once they sold off a few of their mansions around the globe, got rid of half their staff, and downsized their possessions across the board. Having all that stuff -- even when they could hire staff to help them deal with it -- was making their lives more stressful, not better.

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Does Money Buy Happiness After All?

Does Money Buy Happiness After All?

Recently, a controversial new study was released in which the authors claimed they found evidence that wealthier people are indeed happier than poorer people. If so, this would overturn dozens (if not hundreds) of prior studies that found either no correlation between wealth and happiness or even a negative correlation (that is, richer people are less happy than poorer ones). Given that I dedicated an entire chapter on this topic to The Bliss Experiment including analyzing many of the most interesting studies, it's essential to take a close look at this new claim.

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Resolving Interpersonal Conflict

Resolving Interpersonal Conflict

Recently I got into a disagreement with another that quickly degenerated into a heated exchange -- primarily on his end. It began over a trivial but untrue statement that he made. Unwisely, I responded bluntly with the proven (and verifiably accurate) facts. Instead of conceding his error, he became enraged and the dialogue migrated into a personal attack on me which left me feeling a bit shaken, not because I internalized or believed any of the attack but because I was stunned just how quickly things turned ugly.

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